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Telehealth couples therapy in California

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The short answer

Online couples therapy in California works like office sessions, by secure video. The key rule: if you are located in California during the session, the therapist needs a current, active California license, with a narrow 30-day exception for existing clients visiting the state. Before starting, a therapist must get your consent and give you their license type and number.

Summary
License ruleClients located in California need a California-licensed therapist
ExceptionBBS 30-day temporary practice allowance, existing clients only
Before startingInformed consent, risks and limits, license type and number, local emergency resources
PracticalPrivate room, headphones, stable internet, both partners on one screen

Video sessions are one way to fit couples therapy into two schedules. This guide covers the California rules that protect you and the practical steps that make online sessions work for two.

Who can provide online couples therapy in California?

Where you are during the session decides which license is needed. The Board of Behavioral Sciences (BBS) says you must have a current, active California license or registration to provide marriage and family therapy, clinical social work or professional clinical counseling to clients located in California, including by telehealth. Psychologists are licensed separately by the California Board of Psychology, which publishes its own telehealth FAQ.

This means:

  • A California-licensed LMFT, LCSW, LPCC or psychologist can see you by video anywhere in California, even if you live far from their office.
  • A California licensee who is temporarily outside the state can keep seeing California clients by video, if their license is current and active and they follow California’s telehealth regulation (16 CCR § 1815.5).
  • A therapist licensed only in another state generally cannot start seeing you while you are in California.

What is the 30-day temporary practice allowance?

BBS offers a one-time per calendar year, 30-day allowance for MFTs, professional clinical counselors and clinical social workers licensed in another US state. It covers only an existing client with an established, ongoing relationship who is located in California for a limited time. The therapist must tell you they are not licensed in California and that the services are for a limited time, give you the BBS website address, and apply to the Board for the allowance. It is not a way for out-of-state therapists to take on new California clients.

What must a therapist do before starting telehealth?

Under the BBS telehealth FAQ, when starting telehealth a licensee or registrant must:

  1. obtain your informed consent;
  2. tell you the potential risks and limitations of treatment by telehealth;
  3. give you their license or registration number and type;
  4. document reasonable efforts to find emergency resources in your area.

Expect a consent form that covers these points, plus what happens if the connection drops and how to reach the therapist in an emergency.

How do we make video sessions work as a couple?

  • One screen or two? Sitting together on one laptop is simplest. Use a larger screen if you can so the therapist sees both faces.
  • Privacy. Pick a room with a closed door. Children, roommates and smart speakers can overhear. Headphones help when someone else is home.
  • Connection. A wired connection or sitting near the router reduces freezes. Close other apps.
  • A buffer. You may want to leave some time after the session before getting back to work or family.
  • Separate locations. If you join from different places, both of you need privacy. If one partner is outside California, ask the therapist first.

Is telehealth safe if there are safety concerns?

Video sessions at home can be overheard. If one partner is afraid of the other, couples sessions, online or in person, may not be the right step. The National Domestic Violence Hotline notes that devices can be monitored without you knowing it and that browsing history can never be completely erased. See when couples therapy isn’t the right step and get help now.

How will profiles show telehealth?

Each therapist profile will list whether they offer video sessions and the states where they say they can see clients by telehealth, alongside their license number so you can check it. See how to check a California license.

Frequently asked questions

Can a therapist licensed in another state see us online while we live in California?

Generally no. California requires a current and active California license or registration to provide therapy to clients located in California. The Board of Behavioral Sciences offers a one-time, 30-day temporary practice allowance per calendar year, but only for an existing client who is travelling in California.

We live in different cities. Can we each join from our own location?

Ask the therapist whether they can run a session with partners on separate screens. If either partner is outside California at the time, the therapist must be allowed to practice where that partner is located. Ask before booking.

Is online couples therapy as good as in person?

We have not reviewed the research on this yet, so we make no claim either way. Ask the therapist how they work by video and whether they mix video and in-person sessions.

What if we travel out of state?

A California license covers clients located in California. If you will be in another state during a session, ask your therapist first; they must check that the other state allows it.

Sources

  1. Board of Behavioral Sciences, Are You Going to Provide Telehealth Services in California? (includes the telehealth FAQ) (checked November 5, 2026)
  2. Board of Behavioral Sciences, Temporary practice allowance FAQs (checked November 5, 2026)
  3. National Domestic Violence Hotline, Internet safety (checked November 5, 2026)
  4. Board of Psychology, Telehealth FAQ (checked November 5, 2026)

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